Understanding Passion

Understand Passion

“Follow your passion” is the most common advice given for a healthy and happy life. But it is rarely mentioned that there are many who remain stuck in a dead end when they follow their passion. So what is the right approach? Should one confine oneself to the straight and narrow safe path of drudgery and boredom? Or should one take the courageous but more dangerous path that passion dictates?

The key here is to understand that there are two types of passions. One is the passion on the surface. This is the “shallow” passion. It is linked to immediate gratification and is driven largely by the ego. Activities related to following such passion cause a boost in the ego as one is moderately good at such activities. This path of passion is a roadblock. It prevents us from finding our true calling as we most likely stop at the shallow level. Our egos are boosted and going further into unknown areas seems dangerous and unnecessary.

Then there is the deeper Passion with the capitalized “P”. This is our deeper calling. It is not related to the ego. Rather the ego is a roadblock. How do we know we are following our Passion and not a shallow ego-boosting activity? The answer is that when we follow our Passion, we are “zoned out”. Time and space do not exist as we spend long hours in this activity, and when we emerge out of our zone we emerge relaxed and happy. There are no boundaries in such activity and there is no worry about acceptance or failure. On the other hand when we do activity related to our shallow passion we are looking for praise, acceptance, and we are constantly afraid of failure. Our work here leaves us tired and anxious. At the shallow passion level our work is merely good and acceptable. However at the level of our deeper Passion, our work is path breaking and outstanding. At the shallow passion level, learning has stopped or is not creative enough. At the deep Passion level learning never stops and is extraordinarily creative. Deep Passion may or may not make us rich or famous, but it gives us immense inner satisfaction. The problem is that most of us remain stuck at the level of the shallow passion and never venture out to the open field of our deeper Passion.

So how do you find your Passion and not remain stuck at the dead-end level of “shallow passion”? The answer is not to try and find your Passion. Rather let it find you. When you get out of your craving to do ego-boosting activity that gives you immediate gratification of recognition and respect, and instead do your actions in the spirit of service, then Passion will find you, and your life will be transformed.

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Credits:This has been written by Raj Shah and edited by Ketna Shah.

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SLOMO

This is an amazing story. Dr. John Kitchin was a successful neurologist. However, he felt as if his life was a rat race – trapped in a routine that didn’t make him happy. There was emptiness inside. Dr. Kitchin abandoned his career and all of his trappings of material success, including a Ferrari, an exotic animal farm and a huge mansion high in the hills. Now, he skates all day, every day, in slow motion, at Pacific Beach. People know him as SLOMO.

This story has been billed as a story of escape, of “doing what your inner child wants”. Really? SLOMO has been at it for sixteen years. Would you want to rollerblade for sixteen years? The answer is in the video itself. If you hear SLOMO carefully, he says that he is meditating. This is not unlike the Sufi whirling dervishes who meditate while experiencing angular momentum of whirling.

The story of SLOMO is not a story of selfishness or escape. It is a story of a person who gave up all and found a way to commune with his deeper Stillness.


“Once we see the light –
then there will be no satisfaction
till we experience a kind of divinity”
– SLOMO

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Mischievous Boys

Boy Mischief

In a certain suburban neighborhood, there were two brothers, 8 and 10 years old, who were exceedingly mischievous. Whatever went wrong in the neighborhood, it turned out they had a hand in it. Their parents were at their wits’ end trying to control them.

Hearing about a priest nearby who worked with delinquent boys, the mother suggested to the father that they ask the priest to talk with the boys. The father replied, “Sure, do that before I kill them!”

The mother went to the priest and made her request. He agreed, but said he wanted to see the younger boy first, and alone. So the mother sent him to the priest. The priest sat the boy down across the huge, impressive desk he sat behind.

For about five minutes they just sat and stared at each other. Finally, the priest pointed his forefinger at the boy and asked, “Where is God?”

The boy looked under the desk, in the corners of the room, all around, but said nothing.
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Honey Badger Houdini

Intelligence seeps through in every aspect of the universe. This wonderful video shows that Honey Badgers are not only intelligent but also skillful tool users. Rather than behaving as masters and overlords of this planet we have a responsibility to work with all species as equal partners to ensure our collective survival.

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The Sun In The Bucket

Sun In Water

The understanding of the word ego is slightly different in our normal day-to-day usage as opposed to the word used in the spiritual context. The typical understanding of the word ego is conceit or self-importance. It often has a negative connotation. A person with huge ego is thought of as being full of himself.

The term ego or “Ahankara” in the spiritual sense has a slightly different and subtler meaning. The entity that takes ownership of all our actions (Kartrutva – कर्तृत्व) and that believes that it is entitled to enjoy the fruits of all its actions (Bhogtrutva – भोक्तृत्व) is ego. Both Doership (Kartrutva) and Enjoyership (Bhogtrutva) go hand in hand. When we talk about transcending the ego to realize the Self, it means one has to transcend Doership and Enjoyership. A true Karmayogi (one who is on the path of Selfless Action) is a perfect example of someone who has transcended the ego. She performs all her actions because they are the right things to do not because of any selfish motive. And she does not expect any fruits from the actions that she performs.

It is very easy to misinterpret the concept of transcending Doership and misunderstand it as not taking responsibility for your actions. That couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Another beautiful way of explaining the concept of ego in Vedanta is by comparing it to the reflection of Sun in a bucket full of water. The Sun signifies the Self (Atman/Brahman), the bucket signifies our body, the water signifies our mind/intellect and the reflection of the Sun is our ego. We incorrectly think of the reflection of the Sun as “me” where as the true “Me” is the Sun that is unaffected by what is happening to the bucket and water. If the water is muddy, the reflection is not clear but the Sun remains the same; if the water is disturbed, the reflection is shaky but the Sun still shines brightly. Similarly, the changes to our body (pain, discomfort), mind (emotions), and intellect (thoughts) clearly affect our ego but the Self is unaffected. It is only because we think of our ego as us, we feel that we are affected. If we correctly think that we are not our body, mind, intellect, and ego but are our true Self, we will never get affected.

Credit: This has been written by Milind Pradhan. He is a student of Vedanta and eastern philosophy. In his professional life he is a Professional Engineer and Board Certified Environmental Engineer (BCEE) and a principal in a leading Environmental Engineering firm.

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