Circle Of Joy

Circle Of Joy

One day, a countryman knocked hard on a monastery door. When the monk tending the gates opened up, he was given a magnificent bunch of grapes.

“Brother, these are the finest my vineyard has produced. I’ve come to bear them as a gift.”

“Thank you! I will take them to the Abbot immediately, he’ll be delighted with this offering.”

“No! I brought them for you.”

“For me?” The monk blushed, for he didn’t think he deserved such a fine gift of nature.

“Yes!” insisted the man. “For whenever I knock on the door, it is you opens it. When I needed help because the crop was destroyed by drought, you gave me a piece of bread and a cup of wine every day. I hope this bunch of grapes will bring you a little of the sun’s love, the rain’s beauty and the miracle of God, for it is He who made it grow so fine.”

The monk held the grapes and spent the entire morning admiring its beauty. But rather than eating the grapes, he decided to deliver the gift to the Abbot, who had always encouraged him with words of wisdom. Continue reading

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Yoga Has Rewired My Brain!

Yoga has Rewired my Brain

In the summer of 2008 I was a busy, happy, and athletic 48 year-old. A runner since 1981, I had participated in my share of races, from 5Ks and 10Ks to half marathons, and thanks to a cooperative (middle aged) body, I was still running and cycling. Happily married for 23 years, and living in a small but beautiful college town, our son was home from college for the summer when I received a phone call from my physician, telling me that I had a mass on my brain. I felt I had been kicked in the stomach. I don’t have to tell you how that news affected our family. It also profoundly changed our lives.

I am grateful for the extended family that supported me, the friends that rallied around me and for my husband and son, without whom I could not have faced the biggest challenge of my life.

The tumor was large — 4x2x3 cm — and was near my brain stem, wrapped around my facial nerve, trigeminal nerve, auditory nerve and vestibular (balance) nerve. Thankfully benign, the tumor had to be removed but because of its location, I was prepared to lose my hearing on one side, my sense of balance and possibly have a paralyzed face. Wonderful surgeons successfully removed the tumor and saved my hearing, my smile, and my life. Grateful does not begin to describe how I feel, every day.

As a result of the surgery, I was faced with chronic facial pain, loss of sensation, and, after a while, severe depression. I returned to work (as a dean of students at the college) and tried mightily to overcome these and other obstacles. Continue reading

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What Your Dog Is Up To When Nobody’s Home

Ever wondered what your dog up to when you are not home? This short video may provide some answers. If it puts a smile on your face then please share it with others!

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The Art Of Asking

The ego loves having the upper hand. It wants to be superior. It wants to be the giver not the asker. Most of us hate asking for help, and in doing so we fortify our aloofness and separateness and we strengthen our ego. When we miss the opportunity to ask we also miss the opportunity for connection. Asking forces us into humility. It forces us to make connections and share a bond. It allows us to dissolve our ego and submit to the force of universal love. If viewed from this light, we then begin to see asking as a form of yoga. Thus the practice in the East of monks and yogis being required to beg for food makes lot of sense.

For artists and creative people if we accept that humility and connection is the key to the creative process, then this talk by Amanda Palmer is of great importance. It shows that one possible future for the creative process may be with freeing art up to be open source. This may require the artist to pass the hat around and ask for donations. The creative process would then truly become a deeper yogic journey.

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Things Are Not Always As They Appear

Angry Person

There was once a man who was ship-wrecked and stranded on an island. Every day he prayed asking God to send someone to rescue him, but to his disappointment, no one ever came.

Months passed and this man learned how to survive on the island. During this time, he accumulated things from the island and stored them in a hut that he constructed. One day after hunting for food and returning back to his hut, much to his dismay he saw that his hut was on fire along with everything else he owned!

All of his possessions were going up in smoke! The only thing he had left were the clothes on his back. Initially he was in shock, and then he was consumed with anger and rage!

In his fury he threw a fist into the air and began cursing God and yelling, “God, how could you let this happen to me? I’ve been praying everyday for months about being rescued and no one has come, and now everything that I have is on fire! How could you do to this to me! Why did you let this happen?”

Later the man was on his hands and knees weeping heavily when he happened to look up and catch sight of a ship coming in his direction. The man was rescued and as they were heading back to civilization the man asked the captain, “How were you able to find me?”

The captain responded, “We were voyaging across the ocean when we noticed on the horizon a column of smoke going up. We decided to go check it out and when we did, that’s when we found you!”

Too often we are quick to judge and we label things and events as “good” or “bad”. But do we really know how things are going to eventually turn out? When we reflect back on our lives we may see certain events that at the time they were occuring we viewed them unfavourably. But now we may be crediting these same events as something that were key to bring to where we find ourselves today. So let us resolve not to expend our energy in judging and labeling events. Rather let us learn to view them dispassionately and with an open and accepting attitude.

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