Jerry’s Choice

Life Is How You Take ItJerry is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!” He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant.

The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?” Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.

I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life. Continue reading

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Liberation from the Gym: The Magic of Ashtanga Yoga!

Kathleen Kastner

Kathleen Kastner

Ashtanga yoga is the closest feeling to being HOME that I have ever experienced. This challenging yet infinitely rewarding style of yoga has changed my life in so many unforeseen ways for the last thirteen years and continues to do so every time I step on my yoga mat. How can ashtanga yoga be such a tool for transformation? I’m not really sure myself, because for me, yoga is all about Spirit, and therefore isn’t to be fully understood by the rational mind, but is a feeling to be experienced.

I began ashtanga yoga while working as an exercise physiologist and a personal trainer. I had been practicing more gentle styles of yoga for two years previously and was making very little progress in my practice. Fifteen years of compulsive cardiovascular and weight training exercise had left my body and my being, in what I now feel was a crippled state of existence. I had created so many imbalances in my body from conventional exercise and was paying the price of tight muscles, injured knees and an unfulfilled sense of Self. Therefore, I took a great leap into the unknown and let go of my controlling mind, which had dictated my exercise behavior for half my life and decided to do a pilot study on myself, by just practicing Ashtanga yoga, without any other form of exercise for one month. After all, if I was going to exercise for two hours a day, I wanted to be doing something I enjoyed and was meaningful to my personal and spiritual growth. In that defining moment I was liberated from my previous gym mentally, which was the best choice I have ever made concerning my health and longevity. I haven’t been to a gym in eleven years! As a health professional, I whole-heartedly believe that Ashtanga yoga is the most effective and thorough form of yoga, exercise, weight management, addiction recovery, physical therapy and psychotherapy. It truly is magical! Continue reading

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Who Am I Talking To?

Who Am I Talking To?A woman in a hot air balloon realized she was lost. She reduced altitude and spotted a man below. She descended a bit more and shouted, “Excuse me sir, can you help me? I promised a friend I would meet him an hour ago but I don’t know where I am.”

The man below replied, “You’re in a hot air balloon hovering approximately 30 feet above the ground. You’re between 40 and 41 degrees north latitude and between 59 and 60 degrees west longitude.”

”You must be an engineer,” said the lady balloonist.

“I am”, replied the man. ‘How did you know?’

”Well”, answered the lady in the balloon, “everything you told me is technically correct, but I’ve no idea what to make of your information, and the fact is I’m still lost. Frankly, you’ve not been much help to me at all. If anything, you’ve delayed my trip even more.”

The engineer below responded, “You must be in Top Management.”

”I am”, replied the lady balloonist, “but, how did you know ?”

“Well,” said the Engineer, “You don’t know where you are, or where you’re going. You made a promise, which you’ve no idea how to keep, and you expect people beneath you, to solve your problems.”

Credit: Source unknown. Came to us via e-mail.

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The Difference Between Winning And Succeeding

Legendary coach John Wooden in this simple talk redefines success. He says that the score of a game is just the by-product and not the end of playing the game. Yet many many of us live our lives with the misperception that achieving our goals is the most important thing in life. And we want to achieve them by hook or by crook.

The key in Coach John Wooden’s mind is the effort we put in and not the result. Too many of us, he says, want the result but are indifferent when it comes to putting in the required effort. He assures us that things will turn out as they should if we do what we should.

So how can we play the game without being tied to the outcome? How can we play the game so that we give it our all and yet be indifferent to how we shall be judged? The answer lies in our ability to take down the ego and leave the results to a greater power. Besides continuously practicing and getting better, the only other thing that can help improve results is if we can manage our ego. This is best done by yoga. When we transform our life in the spirit of yoga our actions naturally turn into the mould of “egoless effort” that Coach John Wooden is talking about.

Related: John Wooden’s Pyramid Of Success

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James Lynn: The King Of Saints

James Lynn: The King Of Saints

James Lynn: The King Of Saints

James Lynn was a brilliant and successful self-made millionaire who came from an extremely humble background. Though successful he felt a spiritual vacuum inside. Then he met Paramahamsa Yogananda in 1932 and his life changed. His story so far has been desribed in an earlier post.

These were not easy times. In the 1930’s the great depression had commenced and it would continue on for the next 15 years to become one of the largest worldwide economic meltdowns in human history. Yogananda found the going tough and he was sustained mainly by a monthly stipend coming from his father in India. Yogananda had met many wealthy patrons before but he was uncompromising that any support that they provide should come without any strings attached.

In James Lynn, however, Yogananda found a worthy disciple. James was completely receptive and a quick learner. Yogananda later said, “When students ask me why James Lynn was able to make such rapid progress, I reply: ‘He knows how to listen.’”

Within a few years of their first meeting, James Lynn had taken over the financial burden of running the Self Realization Fellowship from the shoulders of Paramahamsa Yogananda. This was a great blessing as Yogananda was able to focus exclusively on his spiritual work. Paramahamsa visited India because his guru beckoned him. He tied up loose ends there and returned back to author the bestselling “Autobiography of an Yogi” and other bestselling books. These books have gone on to become spiritual classics and have altered the course of human thought. They have accelerated the flow of yoga to the west and throughout the world.

Of course the great depression was no match to slow James Lynn down. In 1938 he expanded into the oil business. Within a few years the oil business had expanded so much that profits from the highly profitable insurance business formed just a small percentage of his total income. One would think that given the daunting economic environment it would take titanic effort to just keep afloat. Yet James Lynn’s businesses thrived and he expanded into new fields. And what is even more remarkable is that while he was doing all this he made phenomenal progress in his meditation practice under the guidance of Paramahamsa Yogananda.

How did he do this? Continue reading

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