Love is the most difficult thing you will ever do
Yet love is the most effortless thing in this world.
There is no doubt that love is difficult. Just look around and see the heartache all around you. But it is also true that love is effortless. It arises spontaneously without any effort and it fills our lives with magnificence.
So how can we have two contradictory statements existing side by side? How can love be effortless and difficult at the same time?
Love is effortless because love is the language of the soul. It flows effortlessly into our lives if we allow it to do so.
Love is difficult because we have an ego and we dance to its tune. It is no use wishing away the ego. It governs our lives and understanding this simple fact can make a huge difference. Ego is the elephant we are riding. It goes where it wants and leaves a trail of destruction behind it, all we do is “justify” its actions after the fact.
The key to effortless love are the following six points:
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