Gefn and Herja

Gefn And Herja

Gefn and Herja were good friends. They were both woodcutters and were very good at their trade and well respected for their skill and strength. One day they decided to have a competition to find out who was better of the two. They would cut wood from sunrise to sundown and the one who chopped the most wood would win. They were both very competitive and both wanted to win.

On the appointed day Gefn and Herja went into the woods and started chopping. They could hear each other chopping but could not see each other. From time to time Gefn would hear that Herja had stopped chopping wood. He thought, “Herja is resting. This is the time for me to gain some lead.” He would furiously chop more wood during this time. This went on for the entire day. When the sun set both of them collected the wood they had chopped and piled it up side by side.

Gefn thought, “I am sure to win. My arms are sore. I have chopped throughout the day while Herja rested from time to time.” But Gefn was amazed when he saw Herja’s pile was bigger and was declared the winner. When Herja saw the puzzled look over Gefn’s face he went over to him and said, “You know the time you thought I was resting? I was actually sharpening my axe. That way I could chop more than you did!”

“Sharpen the saw” is one of the seven habits of highly successful people as per Stephen Covey. It shows that it is not just enough to work hard to be successful. It is important to keep our skills up to date and take the time to sharpen them.

“Give me six hours to chop a tree and I will use the first four sharpening the axe.” – Abraham Lincoln

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Generosity Is Liberating!

Tony Tolbert grew up watching his father welcome strangers in need into their home. The experience was not always great and people were not always appreciative, but that did not stop him from helping more people. When Tony became a successful lawyer and an UCLA lecturer he wanted to follow in his father’s footsteps. He felt inspired by the story of a family in Atlanta that had sold their home for 800 thousand Dollars and donated the money to charity. When he heard of Felicia Duke, a homeless single mom of four children Tony knew he had to do something. But what could he do?

What he did will surprise you. It not only gave Felicia emotional and physical space to recoup, recover, and heal, but it also enriched and liberated Tony’s life. His actions are now snowballing out as more people are inspired by his example and generosity.

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Crochet Dolls

Crochet Dolls

A man and woman had been happily married for more than 60 years. They had shared everything. They talked about everything. They kept no secrets. Except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to open or ask her about.

For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover.

In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife’s bedside. She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box. When he opened it, he found two crocheted dolls and a stack of money totaling $95,000.

He asked her about the contents.

‘When we were to be married,’ she said, ‘ my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doll.’

The little old man was so moved; he had to fight back tears. Only two precious dolls were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness.

‘Honey,’ he said, ‘that explains the doll, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?’

‘Oh,’ she said, ‘that’s the money I made from selling the dolls.’

Credit: Original source unknown. Found this on Facebook.

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What’s Possible

This is an amazing video three minute video in many respects. For starters it has been watched by 120 world leaders gathered at the United Nations special summit on the environment in September 23rd 2014. The other remarkable thing about this video is that it is about hope not despair. The reason for hope is that our lives hinge on the course we set out, and we have the technologies and the means to make the right choices. So instead of thinking that the problem is too big to solve, we should see it something that we can and absolutely must solve. For the sake of our children and grandchildren.

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I Love Yoga (Pants)!

I Love Yoga Pants

I love yoga. Actually, I don’t just love yoga, I love, love, love yoga. I love yoga culture. I love yoga inspirational sayings. I love yoga clothing. I love the concept of mindfulness living that often accompanies the yoga practice, with its emphasis on connecting mind, body and soul. We live in a world that encourages compartmentalization, so I appreciate pondering the concept of greater interconnectedness.

I love waking up in the morning and going online and reading all of the yoga-inspired quotes posted on my Facebook timeline from yogis around the world — each sharing ways that I can unblock my Chakras and live a more balanced life. I love my beautiful mint green Lululemon yoga mat. Sure, I had to choose between paying my son’s college tuition and buying this mat, but when I see it all rolled up and majestically leaning into the corner of my bedroom, gently reflecting the soft light streaming in from my window, I know I made the right choice.

I love the yoga body. Strong, long, lean and healthy. I love the yoga diet. Clean and organic, with no gimmicks. But more importantly, I love the yoga wardrobe, particularly the pants. I love how yoga pants make me feel. When I slide my yoga pants on in the morning and pull them up to my mid-tummy, I immediately feel thinner. Gone is the muffin top I must constantly mask when wearing my low-rise jeans. Gone is the feeling of rigid cloth cutting into my sides from my optimistic I’m-going-to-fit-into-these-pants-someday-dammit work slacks. Yoga pants gently hug me in a way that says, “let me do the work for you, and I’ll do it gently, so relax my dear, you’re nearly perfect just the way you are.” At last count I had 16 pairs of yoga pants and about 12 yoga tops (although I’m not as much of a fan of my yoga tops, particularly those with cut-out backs — I find those a bit, well, “judgey”).

I love everything yoga. Well, not necessarily everything. To date, I haven’t completely fallen in love with the actual practice of yoga. Don’t get me wrong; I’ve tried. I mean I’ve really, really tried, but I’ve found that engaging in the practice of yoga — and by that I mean going to yoga classes and attempting to make my body comply with the commands of the size-zero yoga instructor — isn’t nearly as nurturing and comforting as everything else yoga.
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