Should Yogis Have Empathy?

Yogic Empathy
Yoga is the realization of our essential oneness with all humanity. Does this then mean that every yogi has to be empathetic to the concerns of all fellow humans? Given the scale of problems around us, how can a yogini worry about her own self-realization?

There are many paths to Yoga. One path of yoga is the study of scriptures and philosophical texts. This path is known as Jnana Yoga and the hope is that by study and logic, consciousness can be trained to realize its true nature.

There is also a path to yoga that requires utter devotion and surrender to the Divine. This path is known as Bhakti Yoga. Here the hope is that by the total surrender to a higher power, our ego will dissolve and consciousness will become firmly established in our higher Self.

We also have a path of Yoga that is known as Raja Yoga. This is the path that was formally expressed by Patanjali in the Yoga Sutras. This is the path of meditation. It combines some elements of the other two paths, because Svadhaya (study) and Ishvarapranidhana (Surrender to God) are part of this path. Continue reading

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Menstrual Man

Menstrual Man, Arunachalam Muruganantham

Arunachalam Muruganantham

In 1998 Arunachalam Muruganantham’s was just married and his life revolved around his wife and widowed mother. One day he discovered that his wife, Shanthi, was hiding something from him. He was shocked to discover that it was rags, “nasty cloths”, which she used during menstruation. “I would not even use these to clean my two wheeler,” Muruganantham said later in a TED talk.

Muruganantham immediately ran to the store to buy sanitary pads to impress his wife. To his shock he found that these were quite unaffordable. He nevertheless bought them to find out what they were made of. When he tore the pad open he found it contained a white cotton like substance. Wondering why a few pennies worth of cotton was being sold as a “pad” at such expensive price, he resolved to make the pad himself.

He fashioned one home made pad out of cotton and proudly handed it to his wife for testing. To his shock he learnt that he had to wait till her period occurred. It was then he understood for the first time that periods happened on a monthly cycle! He then realized that if he had to wait for a month for each round of testing, his pad would take decades to perfect. He needed more volunteers and would have to approach other women. Continue reading

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The Silver Gravy Ladle

Silver Gravy Ladle
John invited his mother over for dinner. During the meal, his mother couldn’t help noticing how beautiful John’s roommate, Julie, was. She had long been suspicious of a relationship between John and his roommate, and this only made her more curious.

Over the course of the evening, while watching the two interact, she started to wonder if there was more between John and the roommate than met the eye. Reading his mom’s thoughts, John volunteered, “I know what you must be thinking, but I assure you, Julie and I are just roommates.”

About a week later, Julie came to John and said, “Ever since your mother came to dinner, I’ve been unable to find the beautiful silver gravy ladle. You don’t suppose she took it, do you?”

John said, “Well, I doubt it, but I’ll e-mail her just to be sure.” So he sat down and wrote: “Dear Mother, I’m not saying you ‘did’ take a gravy ladle from my house, and I’m not saying you ‘did not’ take a gravy ladle. But the fact remains that one has been missing ever since you were here for dinner.”

That evening John received a reply from his mother which read: “Dear Son, I’m not saying that you ‘do’ sleep with Julie, and I’m not saying that you ‘do not’ sleep with Julie. But the fact remains that if she was sleeping in her own bed, she would have found the silver gravy ladle under her pillow by now. Mom”

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Healing

A very short but powerful video by Lilias Folan that she has titled as “Healing”. She describes here the healing that takes place inside us when we are able to face our fears and discomforts. This is when we stop running away and instead start accepting and learning.

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The Life Of An Yogini

Alice Herz-Sommer

Alice Herz-Sommer


Who is a Yogi or Yogini? There are many ways to answer this question, but a key defining characteristics of somebody who is on the path to yoga is the steady reduction of recrimination and regret in life coupled with a steady increase in love and forgiveness. This usually results in a life full of happiness where living is viewed as an extraordinary privilege and a joy. But make no mistake, just by doing an hour of yoga on the mat a few times a week does not necessarily mean that you are on the path of yoga. This may get you started but it may take more effort than that. On the other hand there are lives that have been lived where the person never touched the yoga mat, but nevertheless lived in an entirely yogic manner. The story of Alice Herz-Sommer illustrates. She recently passed away at the age of 110.

Alice Herze was born in Prague, Czechoslovakia on Nov 25 1903. She was one of five children of a German-speaking, secular Jewish family. Her father was a wealthy businessman and her parents mingled with artistic circles. Kafka and Mahler were among the friends of the family.

Alice’s love for music started early. She began her piano lessons at 5. By the time she was in her late teens, she was giving well-received concerts throughout Europe. In 1931 she married a musician-businessman named Leopold Sommer who was also an amateur violinist. The couple had a son, Stepan born in 1937.
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